The idea of using flowers as some kind of container is pretty heavy.
>When you draw a boundary around something horrible, you can give it a shape; you can contain it.Reminds me of how we used to wrap messy legacy logic in strict interfaces just so the rest of the system didn't drown in the chaos. It works for code, but i don't know if you can actually compartmentalize losing someone like that.
more here:
https://ethanmarcotte.com/wrote/our-frail-thoughts/